Dialing M For Mindfulness:
Using the Golden Arches
by Maya Frost
Looking for mindfulness? Who
ya gonna call?
Try dialing M.
It's easy to be mindful.
It's just hard to remember to be mindful.
That's why it's so important to pick our triggers.
Here's a great trigger for
mindfulness—the letter M.
I'm a great fan of the letter
M. For me, it stands for mindfulness, meditation,
mediation and mind massage. It's soothing to say:
"Mmmmmmm." Add an H and you're thinking:
"Hmmmmm." Add an O and you're chanting:
"Ommmmmmm." It's hard to go wrong with M.
Okay, but in the course of
your day, with all the M-words you hear, say and see,
how can you possibly remember to be mindful each time?
You can't. That's why you need to choose ONE
M for your mindfulness trigger, and I've
got the perfect one: the McDonald's Golden
Arches.
No, really. Think about it.
You've already got your own ideas about McDonald's.
Maybe you love McDonald's food. Maybe you appreciate
the convenience of a drive-thru breakfast when you're
on the road. Maybe you hate its corporate identity.
Maybe you've seen "Super-Size Me" and all
you can think about is poor Morgan Spurlock getting
hypertension in his month-of-McDonald's-food experiment.
Maybe you feel guilty that you like McDonald's food.
Maybe you feel upset that you feel guilty.
Whether you love to
hate McDonald's or hate to love it, those Golden Arches
are a complex trigger. It's time for a little
piggybacking--intentionally superimposing a new concept
on an already loaded one.
Here's how it works: The first
time each day that you see the McDonald's Golden Arches—the
sign itself, the logo on a paper bag, an image on
a television commercial—simply say, "I
am mindful." That's it.
No need to spin your stories.
You don't have to get involved in any mental arguments.
There's no reason to get caught up in any emotion.
Just use it as a trigger to be mindful.
By saying this phrase—“I
am mindful"—you are actually starting a
complex process in your brain. You are creating a
powerful link to a visual image, and taking control
of what it does for you. You are building a self-fulfilling
prophecy—if you notice the Golden Arches, then
you are indeed mindful.
Since being mindful is not
something you normally associate with McDonald's,
it serves as a sort of balancing mechanism. Because
the only emotion associated with mindfulness is a
calm sense of paying attention, you can strip McDonald's
of its "good" and "bad" properties
and just note it without judgment.
This is what mindfulness is
all about. By picking a trigger that is ubiquitous,
you are automatically giving yourself plenty of opportunities
to include this brief mindful moment in your day.
You will find that you will
begin to be mindful every time you see the Golden
Arches. That might expand to other images of your
choice—the Coca-Cola logo, the Disney logo,
Starbucks, whatever. Choose something you can't avoid,
and take advantage of it.
Take comfort in taking control
of your mind.
Mmmmmm. I'm lovin' it.
© Copyright 2005, Maya Frost
Maya Frost
has taught thousands of people how to pay attention. Through her
company, Real-World Mindfulness Training™, she offers
playful, powerful eyes-wide-open alternatives to meditation.
To read her free tips and tricks for everday awarenes, visit
http://www.Real-WorldMindfulness.com
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